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Hi friends! This past weekend we did something that feels very ‘grown-up’ and we bought a sofa, a sofa that is new and custom and that we won’t have to drive home and assemble ourselves. I definitely have some anxiety around such a large purchase and ‘grown-up’ thing and my therapist reminded me that no matter how old we are, there are always going to be events or milestones that feel new and very ‘grown-up.’ We are expecting it to be here in 5 - 7 weeks and it’s helpful to have both something to look forward to and also an actual date on the calendar indicating when we should have a lot more unpacking and organizing done. We have unpacked all our necessities and the entire kitchen and library and now we’ve lost steam.